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Does anyway know of some good asm tutorials that go over the basic commands, also xms and mouse access and the int's in general, and finally good old graphics?

http://www.venosoft.com/uploads/artofassembly.rar

It doesn't have everything you're looking for, but with a good read-through... you'll have a great understanding of the language.

Also, for the interrupts, try Ralf Browns interrupt list:

http://www.ctyme.com/rbrown.htm