I've become my worst nightmare... my father

[Rhiannon]

why didnt you do that 10 months ago?

[Blitz]

Seph, if i didn't know you, i'd have sort have feelt sorry for you. But now i do, and i know that you have no idea whatsoever on how one should act. But let me tell you something, being a man is being strong. And it has nothing to do with physical strength. It's being a strong mind, it's about doing what you have to do. Never using voilence period, especially on weaker beings, wether physically or mentally.

Being a man is about doing the right thing, how hard it might be. Staying in a relationship that's rotten until the point where you loose your mind and start hitting the other is pathetic and being a sissy. I'm sure your gf have done enough to drive you to the state you were in. But it's just as much YOUR FAULT for letting her do that in the begining and not leaving when you first knew that it was hopeless. Take responsibility for your own actions.

That's what i had to say.

[seph]

Update:

Nikki is going to New Hampshire to stay with her best friend for a week. There is a very probable chance that she may very well stay living with her. She is keeping Danny.

I am moving in with my Uncle Steve, who lives in southern Illinois. He is going to teach me the trade of installing floors and doing other construction. He has his own company down there btw. And he owns a couple houses, and he said he could rent one out to me for about $350 or $400 a month, which is incredible compared to prices up here, at about $750 or $800.

[SadButTrue]

Hey man, i don't really know you but i've read through this topic and only know what has been said here, obviously.

Anyway, good luck with that trade, take care of yourself, and we'll see you soon ^_^

And Nikki, you too take care of yourself

I'm not taking sides, so best of luck to both of you