girl troubles

[MystikShadows]

Words of wisdom right there from Moneo and rattrap :-)

But you shouldn't be asking your GF, your Mother, father, friends of any sex. The only one you should ask any question about this is yourself.

You know how you think about this "friend". if you can handle it fine for everyone...but if you think you'd succomb to the slightest temptation don't get tempted....it also depends on what you want for yourself too.

[xteraco]

well, i asked her out for some coffee, and she said no.... she's got a boyfriend, i told her to tell her boyfriend that i'm gay, and were just friends (i'm not really gay ).... she laughed, and said no, he wont believe her

[SJ Zero]

This illustrates the futility of the emphasis on dating and such our society has.

Really. This person could have turned out to be a kindred spirit in a world which we all know is rather lacking in people who think as programmers. Instead, both people are forced to consider the dating connotations of a meeting, just because they are people of the opposing gender. One nearly rejects the idea outright, the other does.

Men and women will be equals in name only, until this archaic way of thinking dies.

[Agamemnus]

Introduce her to me.

[barok]

Ask her help for a programming question and play dumb. Or not and try to show her that your not as dumb as you look. something like that. I dunno... I give up. I'm going back to my statics.